February 20, 1952 - October 20, 2020
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He was more than just the love of my life...he was my best friend. Someone I could count on.
The only person in the world who knew me and loved me despite my shortcomings. He was the one I
could be myself with. He was the one who was always there for me on bad days after Kris died. Late
at night when lying in bed he was the one who would hold my hand and we would talk about dreams we
both had for our future. We were two halves of a whole. He was that young boy who was so excited on
our wedding day. So anxious to start a new life together. He was the one I wanted to grow old with.
He would always say he knew what I was thinking before I said anything. He loved his family and was so
proud of all of his children. He was as excited to have our first child as he was to have our last and
all those in between. He was the hardest working man I ever met. He wanted his children to have all
they needed and some of what they wanted. He loved Christmas more than anyone I ever knew. That is
why I will always decorate for Christmas even when I really don’t feel
like it. He loved Christmas trees with lots of lights and sparkle. He was the man who on our first Christmas
took the time to take each individual tinsel strand and hang it carefully on the tree. Believe me that was a
lot of work.
He was my biggest fan when I would start a new hobby. At the end of his life he was still making
plans to help me start paint pouring parties for kids. He said he would be my helper. He was a true dreamer.
He was the loving and thoughtful person who would come walking up to my theater at Dollywood with a huge smile
on his face holding a brown bag which I knew held something he knew I would love from the glass shop. He was
the man I witnessed use the last drop of strength he had to force himself to sit on the edge of his hospital bed
and let the therapist hoist him to his feet just for me and his children. It was his way of telling us all that
he loved us and that he wanted to get better just for us. He was the man who knew no strangers. He was the man
who when he went into a Dollar Tree at Christmas time would say “I’m getting hats and gloves for the children’s
Christmas box because winter is going to be cold.” He was my Hallmark movie buddy. He was the person I loved doing
things with more than anyone else in the entire world. He was the one who always asked if I wanted my heater for my
feet turned on at night and the one who always asked if I needed my medicine refilled. He was the man who said if I
wanted a pink bedroom he didn’t mind sleeping in a pink girly room as long as I was happy. He loved rainy cloudy days
as much as I do. He was and always will my other half and the love of my life. I will love him and miss him till we meet
again at the gates of Heaven.
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The light that you give us Will stay in our hearts Reminding us That in my prayer You are an everlasting star There's so much faith We dream of a world with no more violence A world of justice and hope Grasp your neighbor's hand As a symbol of peace and brotherhood The strength that you give us Is the wish That everyone may find love In and around himself And the faith that You've lit inside us I feel will save us |